Status of Women in Islam
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Many have asserted that "women are not treated as equal members" of Muslim societies [1] and have criticized Islam for condoning this treatment.[2] The term "Muslim apartheid" has been used to highlight religious isolation in France as well as gender segregation practices.[3][4] The Catholic Church has warned Christian women about marrying Muslim men because of the "inferior" status of women in Muslim countries and the non-existence of maternal rights to children. [5] Critics argue that women have an inferior status in Islam based on verses found in the Quran and Hadiths. Some of the main points of contention are:
A woman's witness is worth half of a man's: [6]
- The sharia law based on Sura 2:282 regards the witness of a woman to be worth half of a man. This has been a major point of discrimination in Muslim society. Critics argue that to be a witness to a crime, a woman is not deficient in her intellectual capabilities as compared to a man.
Women can be beaten for disobedience: [7]
- Based on Sura 4:34 the Quran clearly states that a woman can be scourged for disobedience. This has led to higher levels of abuse against women in Islamic societies.
A woman is cursed if she refuses to sleep with her husband:
- The hadiths state that a woman is cursed by angels if she refuses to sleep with her husband. This is equivalent to a woman's sex life being enforced by her husband. Critics argue that marriage is a compromise between two people in any culture. This clearly gives woman a subordinate status in Islam.[8]
A wife may remarry her ex-husband if and only if she marries another man, they consummate the marriage, and then this second man divorces her: [9]
- The need for a pointless ritual to marry a second husband and then hope to get divorced before being allowed to remarry the first husband has been called a tribal practice that has nothing to do with divine inspiration.
According to Muhammad, a woman lacks common sense because their minds are deficient: [10]
- Muslim apologists like to rationalize this by the false claim that the ratio of women to men is 3:1, hence the rationale that hell is filled with more woman. No society exists at this time or has been proven to historically exist with a 3:1 ratio of women to men. On closer observation of the verse, this has nothing to with biology. In fact when the prophet himself answers in this verse that the reason for hell being filled with woman is because a) they curse, b) they are ungrateful to their spouses. Another key point to note here is that there are no verses that explain what happens to a man who is ungrateful to his wife. In any case the prophet goes on with more comments like a) they lack common sense, b) they all fail in religion, and c) they rob the wisdom of the wise. Lastly women are accused of not fasting in Ramadan. This is a reference to women not fasting when they experience their monthly periods, however this directly contradicts the Quran when it explicitly allows Muslim women to not fast at such times based on this verse [11].
4 witnesses are needed to convict a rapist:[12]
- Muslim apologists like to claim that Sure 4:15 has been misinterpreted in Arab countries. However this happens in most fundamentalist Islamic societies that follow the letter of the Quranic law. It is extremely difficult to get 4 witnesses in a rape case which explains why since 1947, only 2 women have won rape cases in the entire nation of Pakistan.
Heaven for Men vs. Women:
- Heaven for men is 72 big breasted virgins to do their bidding. [13]However the Islamic heaven for woman does not promise women any similiar sexual rewards. Among various quotes that Muhammed said about women in after life was that majority of inhabitants in Hell will be women.[14]
Islam permits the marrying of 4 wives: [15]
- Polygamy in Islam is permitted for men but not for women. Apologists have argued that this verse was sent down at a time when there was a shortage of men because so many of them were dying in the wars waged during the early days of Islam. However this has not stopped a widespread practice of Muslim men taking multiple wives all over the Muslim world.
Muhammad's lack of respect for women can be seen from other examples in his life:
- There are atleast 20 different verses in different Hadiths that say that Muhammed Married Aisha when she was 6 and consummated that marriage when she was 9. [16]
- Muhammed forced his adopted son Zaid to divorce his wife Zainab so he could marry her by conveniently getting a revelation from Allah that Zainab was going to be his wife now.[17]
- Based on the hadiths, slave girls were the sexual property of their male owners. They could be raped and then sold off. One hadith narrates a story where the Muslim warriors find excellent arab women that they not only want to sleep with, but later sell off. Also they do not want to impregnate the women (According to Islam, they are required to take care of the women if they do) so they perform Al-Azl. Upon approaching the prophet, he does not rebuke them rather he sanctions it saying that it makes no difference whether they do al-azl or not. [18]In another verse, Ali performs this act, someone complains to the prophet and the response he gets is that Ali not only deserves this slave but more than that from Al Khumus(this is the Arabic word for One Fifth (1/5), its 1/5th of the war booty). The Pakistani army raped thousands of women in Bangladesh during the separation of East Pakistan citing this verse as scriptural basis. [19]
- A man may suckle an adult woman to make them related in an Islamic sense, hence preventing them from ever being married. This was the basis of the famous breast feeding fatwa issued in Egypt that was reported in the media[20] where a person was ordered to suckle the adult women in his office to make it Islamically legal for him to work with unrelated women in his office.[21] [22]
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- ↑ http://www.freedomhouse.org/template.cfm?page=22&year=2005&country=6825. See also Timothy Garton Ash. "Islam in Europe", The New York Review of Books, 10-05-2006.
- ↑ Timothy Garton Ash. "Islam in Europe", The New York Review of Books, 10-05-2006.
- ↑ Muslim apartheid burns bright in France | Minette Marrin - Times Online
- ↑ World Politics Review | Muslim Apartheid in Britain: A Veiled Threat?
- ↑ [1]
- ↑ Based on Sura 2:282 Let his guardian dictate faithfully, and get two witnesses, out of your own men, and if there are not two men, then a man and two women, such as ye choose, for witnesses, so that if one of them errs, the other can remind her.
- ↑ Sura 4:34 (PICKTHAL TRANSLATION): Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High, Exalted, Great.
- ↑ Hadith Volume 7, Book 62, Number 121 The Prophet said, "If a man Invites his wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then the angels send their curses on her till morning.". So he enforces your sex life whether you want it or not, if u don’t do it, u are cursed.
- ↑ Sura 2:230 : And if the husband divorces his wife (for the third time), she shall not remain his lawful wife after this (absolute) divorce, unless she marries another husband and the second husband divorces her. (In that case) there is no harm if they [the first couple] remarry . . . . (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 165).
- ↑ Hadith Sahih Muslim Book 001 :142 It is narrated on the authority of 'Abdullah b. Umar that the Messenger of Allah observed: O womenfolk, you should give charity and ask much forgiveness for I saw you in bulk amongst the dwellers of Hell. A wise lady among them said: Why is it, Messenger of Allah, that our folk is in bulk in Hell? Upon this the Holy Prophet observed: You curse too much and are ungrateful to your spouses. I have seen none lacking in common sense and failing in religion but (at the same time) robbing the wisdom of the wise, besides you. Upon this the woman remarked: What is wrong with our common sense and with religion? He (the Holy Prophet) observed: Your lack of common sense (can be well judged from the fact) that the evidence of two women is equal to one man, that is a proof of the lack of common sense, and you spend some nights (and days) in which you do not offer prayer and in the month of Ramadan (during the days) you do not observe fast, that is a failing in religion. This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Abu Tahir with this chain of transmitters.
- ↑ Sura 2:185 Therefore, anyone of you who witnesses that month should fast therein, and whoever is ill or upon a journey shall fast a similar number of days later on. Allah intends your well-being and does not want to put you to hardship. He wants you to complete the prescribed period so that you should glorify His Greatness and render thanks to Him for giving you guidance.
- ↑ Sura 4:15 And as for those who are guilty of an indecency from among your women, call to witnesses against them four (witnesses) from among you; then if they bear witness confine them to the houses until death takes them away or Allah opens some way for them.
- ↑ "[Muhammad] was heard say: "The smallest reward for the people of Heaven is an abode where there are eighty thousand servants and seventy two wives, over which stands a dome decorated with pearls, aquamarine and ruby, as wide as the distance from [Damascus] to San'a". Al-Tirmidhi, Sunan. Vol. IV: Chap. 21. Hadith: 2687 Surah 78:31-34: Verily for the Righteous there will be a fulfillment of (the heart's) desires,Gardens enclosed, and grapevines; And voluptuous women of equal age; And a cup full (to the brim).
- ↑ Sahih Bukhari 7:62:124 - Narrated Usama: The Prophet said, "I stood at the gate of Paradise and saw that the majority of the people who entered it were the poor, while the wealthy were stopped at the gate (for the accounts). But the companions of the Fire were ordered to be taken to the Fire. Then I stood at the gate of the Fire and saw that the majority of those who entered it were women."
- ↑ Sura 4:3 And if you be apprehensive that you will not be able to do justice to the orphans, you may marry two or three or four women whom you choose. But if you apprehend that you might not be able to do justice to them, then marry only one wife, or marry those who have fallen in your possession.
- ↑ Sahih Bukhari vol.5 book 58 ch.43 no.236 p.153. "Narrated Hisham’s father: Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married ‘Aisha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he consummated that marriage when she was nine years old."
- ↑ Ibn Sa`d and al-Tabari said concerning this story: Muhammad Ibn Yahya Ibn Hayyan narrated, "The Messenger of God came to Zaid Ibn Haritha's house seeking him. Perhaps the Messenger of God missed him at that time, that is why he said, 'Where is Zaid?' He went to his house seeking him and, when he did not find him, Zainab Bint Jahsh stood up to [meet] him in a housedress, but the Messenger of God turned away from her. She said, 'He is not here, Messenger of God, so please come in; my father and mother are your ransom.' The Messenger of God refused to come in. Zainab had hurried to dress herself when she heard that the Messenger of God was at her door, so she leapt in a hurry, and the Messenger of God liked her when she did that. The heart of the Prophet was filled with admiration for her He went away muttering something that was hardly understandable but for this sentence: 'Praise be to God who disposes the hearts.' When Zaid came back home, she told him that the Messenger of God came. Zaid asked, 'You asked him to come in, didn't you?' She replied, 'I bade him to, but he refused.' He said, 'Have you heard [him say] anything?' She answered, 'When he had turned away, I heard him say something that I could hardly understand. I heard him say, "Praise be to God who disposes the hearts." ' Zaid went out to the Messenger of God and said, 'O Messenger of God, I learned that you came to my house. Did you come in? O Messenger of God, my father and mother are your ransom. Perhaps you liked Zainab. I can leave her.' The Messenger of God said, 'Hold on to your wife.' Zaid said, 'O Messenger of God, I will leave her.' The Messenger of God said, 'Keep your wife.' So when Zaid left her, she finished her legal period after she had isolated herself from Zaid. While the Messenger of God was sitting and talking with `A´isha, he was taken in a trance, and when it lifted, he smiled and said, 'Who will go to Zainab to tell her that God wedded her to me from heaven?' The Messenger of God recited; 'Thus you told someone whom God had favoured and whom you yourself have favoured: "Hold on to your wife." ' `A´isha said, 'I heard much about her beauty and, moreover, about how God wedded her from heaven, and I said, "For sure she will boast over this with us." ' Salama, the slave of the Messenger of God, hurried to tell her about that. She gave her some silver jewellery that she was wearing."
- ↑ Sahih Muslim Book 008, Number 3371:Abu Sirma said to Abu Sa'id al Khadri (Allah he pleased with him): 0 Abu Sa'id, did you hear Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) mentioning al-'azl? He said: Yes, and added: We went out with Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) on the expedition to the Bi'l-Mustaliq and took captive some excellent Arab women; and we desired them, for we were suffering from the absence of our wives, (but at the same time) we also desired ransom for them. So we decided to have sexual intercourse with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). But we said: We are doing an act whereas Allah's Messenger is amongst us; why not ask him? So we asked Allah's Mes- senger (may peace be upon him), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born.
- ↑ Sahih Bukhari Volume 5, Book 59, Number 637: Narrated Buraida: The prophet sent Ali to Khalid to bring the Khumus (part of the war booty) and I hated Ali, and Ali had taken a bath (after a sexual act with a slave girl from the Khumus). I said to Khalid, "Don't you see this (i.e. Ali)? When we reached the prophet I mentioned that to him. He said, "O Buraida! Do you hate Ali?" I said, "Yes." He said, "Do you hate him for he deserves more than that from the Khumus."
- ↑ [2]
- ↑ Sahih Muslim Book 008, Number 3424: ' A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Sahla bint Suhail came to Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) and said: Messengerof Allah, I see on the face of Abu Hudhaifa (signs of disgust) on entering of Salim (who is an ally) into (our house), whereupon Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said: Suckle him. She said: How can I suckle him as he is a grown-up man? Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) smiled and said: I already know that he is a young man 'Amr has made this addition in his narration that he participated in the Battle of Badr and in the narration of Ibn 'Umar (the words are): Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) laughed.
- ↑ Sahih Muslim Book 008, Number 3426: Ibn Abu Mulaika reported that al-Qasim b. Muhammad b. Abu Bakr had narrated to him that 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Sahla bint Suhail b. 'Amr came to Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) and said: Messenger of Allah, Salim (the freed slave of Abu Hudhaifa) is living with us in our house, and he has attained (puberty) as men attain it and has acquired knowledge (of the sex problems) as men acquire, whereupon he said: Suckle him so that he may become unlawful (in regard to marriage) for you He (Ibn Abu Mulaika) said: I refrained from (narrating this hadith) for a year or so on account of fear. I then met al-Qasim and said to him: You narrated to me a hadith which I did not narrate (to anyone) afterwards. He said: What is that? I informed him, whereupon he said: Narrate it on my authority that 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) had narrated that to me.
